Wasannin Cika Karin Magana ga Masu Rayuwa da Mantuwa

Wasan cika karin magana yana amfani da kalmomi da aka saba waɗanda suka tsaya kafin kalmar ƙarshe. Ga mutane da yawa, hanya ce mai daɗi kuma marar matsin lamba ta haɗu a wuri ɗaya. Wasan yana aiki domin kalmomin sun daɗe kuma an san su sosai, kuma mutumin da kuke kula da shi ba ya buƙatar tunawa da wani abu game da yau. Wannan jagorar tana bayyana yadda ake yi, yadda ake zaɓar karin magana, da yadda za a kiyaye shi cikin natsuwa.

Menene wasan cika karin magana?

Wasa ne gajere inda mutum ɗaya ya karanta ɓangaren farko na karin magana, ɗayan kuma ya cika ƙarshen. Misalai sun haɗa da “Actions speak louder than…” da “The early bird catches the…” Mutumin da kuke kula da shi zai iya faɗin ƙarshen da baki, ya nuna shi, ko ya zaɓa daga ƙarshen magana biyu ko uku da kuka bayar. Wasu mutane suna jin daɗin su ne su karanta rabin farko.

Golden Moments yana ba da wannan a matsayin wasan cika karin magana kyauta da manyan haruffa. Haka kuma za ku iya yi ba tare da allo ba, ta hanyar faɗin rabin farko kawai ku jira.

Yadda ake yi, mataki-mataki

1. Ku zaɓi lokaci mai natsuwa ku zauna daidai da idonsa, kuna fuskantar mutumin.
2. Ku karanta ɓangaren farko a hankali, da murya mai daɗi, sannan ku ɗan tsaya. National Institute on Aging yana ba da shawarar yin magana a hankali da amfani da jimloli gajeru, masu sauƙi.
3. Ku jira. Ku ba shi daƙiƙu kaɗan. Idan babu amsa, ku bayar da ƙarshen magana biyu ko uku, ɗaya daga cikinsu ita ce daidai.
4. Ku nuna jin daɗin kowace amsa. “I, wannan ce” ko “Ban yi tunanin haka ba” yana kiyaye yanayi mai daɗi.
5. Ku yi hira game da karin maganar. Ku tambaye shi abin da yake nufi a gare shi, ko inda ya ji ta. A nan ne ainihin amfanin yake.
6. Ku tsaya kafin ya gaji. Ƙarin magana kaɗan da ɗan dariya ya isa zama cikakke.

Bayar da zaɓi ba tare da gwaji ba

Zaɓin ƙarshen magana da yawa na iya sauƙaƙa wasan, amma kuma zai iya zama kamar gwaji idan an bayar da shi a matsayin ƙalubale. Ku kiyaye sautin magana cikin sauƙi. Ku ce “Kuna so ku ji ƙarshen ko ku zaɓi ɗaya?” maimakon “Wanne ne?” Ku bayar da zaɓi bayan ɗan tsaya, ba kafin mutumin ya sami damar amsawa ba.

Idan mutumin ya fusata ko ya ji kunya, ku bar wasan ku ci gaba da wani abu. Shafinmu na shawarwarin sadarwa yana bayyana yadda ake sauya hanya ba tare da hayaniya ba.

Zaɓar karin magana da suka dace da mutumin

• Ku yi amfani da karin maganar mutumin da kansa. Ku tambayi ’yan uwa abin da mahaifinsu ko abokin zamansu ya saba faɗa. Karin maganar daga yara sukan fi sauƙi.
• Ku zaɓi karin magana gajeru na yau da kullum. Kalmomi game da yanayi, ɗakin girki, lambu, iyali da lokutan shekara sun zama ruwan dare kuma suna da sauƙin bi.
• Ku kiyaye shi a sauƙaƙe. Karin magana da suka dogara da tsoffin kalmomi ko darasi na iya rikitarwa. Ku ajiye su ga mutanen da suke jin daɗinsu.
• Ku duba harshe. Karin magana da yawa ba sa fassaruwa sosai. Ku yi amfani da karin maganar da mutumin ya sani a cikin harshensa, ko da hakan na nufin nemo sababbi.

Karin magana bisa jigo

Kowane misali a ƙasa yana nuna ƙarshen a cikin baka a gare ku. Ku karanta ɓangaren farko kawai, sannan ku jira.

• Yanayi: “Rain before seven…” (ƙarshen: “fine by eleven”); “Every cloud has…” (a silver lining).
• Dafa abinci da abinci: “Too many cooks…” (spoil the broth); “Don’t count your chickens…” (before they hatch).
• Gida da iyali: “Home is where the heart…” (is); “Blood is thicker than…” (water).
• Lokutan shekara da lambu: “April showers bring…” (May flowers); “You reap what you…” (sow).

Idan mutumin ba zai iya amsawa ba fa?

Wasu mutane ba za su iya samun kalmomi ba a matakan gaba. Kada ku daina karanta karin maganar. Ku karanta shi, ku yi murmushi, ku gayyaci amsa ta hanyar alama, jinjina kai, ko ta zaɓar hoto. Raba karin magana da aka saba har yanzu lokaci ne na haɗuwa tare. Ku haɗa wasan da kiɗa, abin sha mai ɗumi, ko shafa hannu, kamar yadda yake a shafinmu na aikin da suka dace da matakan gaba.

Ƙarin hanyoyin amfani da karin magana

Karin magana suna buɗe hanya zuwa hira game da rayuwar mutumin a baya. Za ku iya gayyatar labarai ta hanyar tambayoyi daga tambayoyin tunawa da baya, ko ku yi wasa mai alaƙa kamar katunan tattaunawa. Don ƙarin ra’ayoyi a cikin yini, ku duba aikin da suka dace da mutanen da ke rayuwa da mantuwa.